Searching for the right one....

So the fam went searching this weekend for the right venue for the wedding. This bride knows exactly what she wants and she's gonna get it. But after all of this wedding talk, I started to think about my job alone. Here's my checklist so far:
1. Plan the bachelorette party
1a) Where are we going?
1b) Who does she want there?
1c) How expensive is it?
1d) What will we do once we all arive? and where will we go?
(Thank g-d she is not about to walk around with a penis around her neck or whatever else they do at Bachelorette parties. I'm glad with this will just be good fun and a night with the ladies...maybe a surprise here and there, but NO embarrassing moments haha).BACK TO THE LIST
1e) How drunk is she willing to get?

2. Planning the Bridal Shower
2a) Will she like it?
2b) Will it be a surprise?
2c) How do I make sure it is a surprise?
2d) How do I know that no one will spoil it?
2e) Where will it be?
3. The Speech
4. Making sure she is calm and happy through out the entire process and especially on the day
5. Making sure their day is just perfect.

One thing that I've realized is that moneyis a serious issue once you start the process of a wedding. Well I don't care how poor I am, I'll spend every penny I have just to make this one right. I'll start actual research this week.

In freak wedding events this Maid of Honor took a bullet at a Texas wedding in May which I thought made her quite the Maid of Honor.

And as for "Bad Bridesmaid's" check this out.